You should almost never run Tutor as root. When you run “sudo” then tutor is run from a different project root, with a different config.yml file, and thus different configuration values (DOCKER_IMAGE_OPENEDX for instance).
Stop everything:
sudo tutor local stop
sudo tutor dev stop
From then on don’t run “sudo” ever again.
tutor local stop
tutor dev stop
Second, you are running tutor v13, thus your for of edx-platform should be based on top of the Maple branch. Given that you have DOCKER_IMAGE_OPENEDX=docker.io/{My docker username}/openedx:lilac.3 it looks like you made your fork on top of the Lilac branch. This is not going to work.
Start back from scratch and do things slowly and carefully. You’ll get there.